Day 1,127 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Friday – 12/4/2020

Feeling Sad

Feeling Sad. It breaks my heart that Steve and I are still venturing through this immigration process almost two years later. Though my heart is also filled with love as I know our love is strong and I married a man that brings so much joy and love to my life. To have someone that gets me and all my quirks and loves me for who I am is what a marriage should be. I feel lucky. I also feel extremely blessed by all of the people praying for us that Steve will soon be here in Texas. Thank you from both of us.  Steve posted yesterday about being sad. I am reposting here for those of you that didn’t see it. I love you Steve! We will be together.

From Steve’s Post….

Feeling Sad Today.

I had a hug today from a very dear friend. I realised then just how much this year has affected me. This made me so sad.

With our second wedding anniversary and Christmas coming up it should be a time of celebration for us.

After many conversations and research, Callie and I have decided to cancel any trip where we can be together until next year. Knowing how important “Life Celebrations” are to my wife, this made me sad.

There are a few reasons for this decision.

We looked at Callie travelling to be with me. The cost of such a trip (flights, accommodation) and the 14-day quarantine rule in the UK makes it unpractical for us.

We also looked at meeting up somewhere warm and maybe some diving. Cancun seemed like the place. I cannot fly direct; I also cannot transit through any US airport due to my ongoing visa process.

If I could make the trip, I would have to quarantine for 14 days on return.

Also, it appears that most of America will be there for Christmas and we didn`t want to take the risk.

I am waiting for a US consulate interview. They are on reduced staff and only processing Emergency visas of which I do not qualify. This is unlikely to change until at least next January (almost two years from starting the process). After the first UK lock down the Consulate was processing only student visas! (go figure that one).

Today I learned that the UK government have changed some rules on Quarantine. Certain types of people will not have to quarantine on entry to the UK.

They are: “High Value “business travellers. Certain performing arts professionals. TV production staff. Journalists and the best one is. “Recently signed ELITE sportspeople” What makes them different from my wife? This makes me mad. We are both healthy and want to stay that way so that soon we can be together as we should be.

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,126 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Thursday – 12/3/2020

I love what I do.

I love what I do, and I feel really blessed to have found my profession. Being an entrepreneur it what I was meant to be. Not every day is the same. Some days I work a little and some days a lot. I love the flexibility and to create my own schedule. The holidays are here, and things are definitely heating up though I love helping others sends out love and appreciation to their friends, family and clients at this time of the year. I know that every day I get to help make the world a better place!

#LovePeopleLoveLife #IInspireFreedom

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,125 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Wednesday – 12/2/2020

Signs and Quotes

I have many signs and quotes on my wall. I seem to acquire them in the right timing to remind me a valuable lesson when I need it. This is one I was given several years ago as I was making some major transitions in my life and is still one of my favorites.

I feel blessed as there are a lot of really great things happening for me right now personally and professionally. I do believe everything I’ve been through has gotten me to this moment of truly embracing me for who I am and giving my gifts back to the world. I am excited about the next year and all that is to come.

One of my new daily practices is a five-minute meditation focusing on what I want my life to look like one year from today. It’s a powerful tool and I am very excited about the opportunities as we close out 2020 and venture into 2021.

#LovePeopleLoveLife #IInspireFreedom

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,124 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Tuesday – 12/1/2020

Christmas in Texas

Ummm….is that white stuff on my yard? Ha ha! Just frost though it’s starting to look a lot like Christmas in Texas!

This December is definitely not looking like I had expected it. I never would have thought we would still be waiting for Steve to get his permanent residence/green card almost two years after we got married. I know many have asked and unfortunately, we are still waiting to hear when his interview will be at the US Embassy in London. That’s the next and pretty much last step. It’s a waiting process and no real updates until the magical email shows up in your mailbox one unexpected day.

This process is definitely teaching me patience. It has also showed me that I have married an amazing man. We are strong together even 5,000 miles apart. This is not easy on a relationship though we value our daily time together and our love for each other. I feel blessed to be married to such a great man for me. I love you Steve. We are one day closer!

#LovePeopleLoveLife#IInspireFreedom

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,123 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Monday – 11/30/2020

So Happy

This made me so happy! My friend and business partner Cathy Connors was announced as a new Executive in SendOutCards on our Leadership call tonight! This is a big deal in our company and I’m so proud of Cathy! She set her mind to it and made it happen. Along with Cathy, my friend April Brumm also promoted to Executive! It was fun to see these two ladies become accountability partners and cheer each other. What a fun evening to hear our both our Founder and CEO interview them on their success and praise them for the difference they are making in SOC. Way to go ladies. You made my heart sing with what you accomplished! I am so proud of you both!

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,122 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Sunday – 11/29/2020

A Cold Day on the Golf Course

It’s starting to cool down in Texas. A Cold day on the golf course though after not playing for a week, it sounded like a good idea. The sun came out for a little bit though after 10 holes, the wind got the better of us.

I loved Fall growing up though was never a big fan of winter. I love when we start getting some cooler weather in Texas and glad it doesn’t stay for long. I’m definitely a warmer weather girl!

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,121 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Saturday – 11/28/2020

Decorate my Christmas Tree

A rainy Saturday in Texas made for the perfect day to decorate my Christmas tree and my house. So many of the ornaments on my tree were my mom’s. I hadn’t opened the boxes with her ornaments and Christmas decorations since we packed up the Ranch two and a half years ago. I found many wonderful surprises for my tree and house. Plus my mom’s turquoise ornaments along with several from my sister work perfect in my new house! I’m so glad after the last two years of not decorating that I made the time to do it this year!

#LovePeopleLoveLife#IInspireFreedom

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,120 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Friday – 11/27/2020

Christmas shopping, college football, Thanksgiving leftovers

Christmas shopping, college football, Thanksgiving leftovers and hanging out with friends is the best way to spend Black Friday this year! Curious, what did you do on Black Friday?

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,119 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Thursday – 11/26/2020

Happy Thanksgiving.

Happy Thanksgiving! Such a different Thanksgiving this year as it’s the first time I’m not with family instead with friends that are like family. Plus, my friend Jill and I are very impressed for pulling off this Thanksgiving meal!

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.

Day 1,118 – Finding Joy in the Journey – Wednesday – 11/25/2020

Practice my Art

Practice my Art. Ever since I was young, if you asked me if I preferred to practice a sport or play a sport. I would always say play. I’ve never been overly fond of practicing. I would much rather be in the game.

I’ve had to remind myself that to get better at my game, any game whether it a be golf, cooking, business, writing, I need to practice my art. I’ve always been competitive and love to win, sometimes to my benefit and sometimes to my hindrance. I’ve learned over time that winning is in the showing up and practicing my skills over and over. Real winning is about improving my game and becoming better at my skills

So, in golf as in life, if I want to improve, I need to show up and practice.

About “Finding Joy”

And I’m off…. the 16-day adventure begins. The timing of this trip is interesting so I’m naming it “Finding Joy in the Journey.” I’ll be doing one dedicated post each day (at the end of the day or next morning). Since I typically post more than once a day, you’ll find it as a black and white photo. I’ll share the joy of the journey (on the trip or through this season), where I’m finding it and what I’m learning. I hope to inspire myself along the way. And if I can inspire others too, that would be a gift. So let the journey begin…

It was November 2017 and I was ready to head off on a sixteen-day trip.  Nine days before leaving, my mom unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack. It shook me to my core.  I had always been told the 40’s are the best years of your life.  And in a matter of three years, since turning the age of 40, I had gone through a divorce and lost both parents. 

I contemplated canceling the trip though I knew my mom would not be happy with that decision. She would want me to continue living my life.  My parents did not raise me to sit back and watch life; instead to fully participate in every moment. So I promised my parents to find joy in the journey everyday on my sixteen-day trip and share my experience with others. 

Little did I know what “Finding the Joy in the Journey” would turn into when I acted on the prompting to share my experience on a daily basis.  It helped me see life differently and my wish is that it will inspire others find joy in their journey.